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Reflections

The Cultivating Capacity Blog

I offer these writings, practices, and prompts to support your healing journey in or outside of therapy. They can help you deepen your awareness, regulate your nervous system, and reconnect with your inner wisdom. Drawing from systems theory, neuroscience, and narrative approaches, Reflections explores the deeper currents of healing, relationships, and what it means to fully embrace your story. My hope is that you find something here that resonates, challenges, or simply holds space for where you are right now.

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The Relational Roots of Maslow’s Hierarchy

Most of us have seen Maslow’s hierarchy of needs: a pyramid that begins with food, water, and shelter, then rises through safety, belonging, esteem, and self-actualization.
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E-STAIR: Return to Ourselves

In a world that often celebrates the climb, the conquest, and outward displays of strength and individual “resilience,” many women feel a quieter call—one that pulls inward, downward, and toward something older, wilder, and more aligned with our deepest selves.
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E-STAIR: Enhanced Skills Training in Affective and Interpersonal Regulation

For survivors of childhood sexual abuse and incest, healing from complex post-traumatic stress disorder (CPTSD) can feel like an overwhelming journey. Fortunately, therapeutic approaches are evolving to meet the unique needs of those with histories of complex trauma.
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Embracing the Client Consultation

Today, we’re diving into an exciting opportunity for MFTs and other systemic therapists—systems consultation. Some clinicians may recognize this by other names – initial consultation, chemistry calls, discovery calls, et cetera.
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Feminist Clinicians Fighting for Justice

Sexual violence is a profound violation that affects individuals, families, and communities. It shakes our trust in a just, safe, and caring world. Addressing its aftermath requires a nuanced understanding of power dynamics, systemic oppression, and the resilience of survivors.
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Tarot as a Narrative Therapy Tool

In the realm of therapy, Narrative Therapy stands out for its focus on personal narratives and the stories we tell ourselves. It's about reshaping these narratives to empower personal growth and healing.
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What Is Narrative Therapy? A Guide to Transforming Your Story

Narrative therapy is a unique therapeutic approach that centers on the idea that our lives are shaped by the stories we tell ourselves and others and the stories society and history tell about us.
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Poetry: Where Expressive Arts Meet Narrative Therapy

Narrative Therapy offers a unique approach to understanding and reshaping the stories we tell about ourselves and influencing the stories others tell about us. One of the lesser-discussed but profoundly impactful tools in Narrative Therapy is poetry.